How to Build a Killer 'For You' Feed

The “For You” feed has become the gold standard of personalized digital experiences—but behind the magic lies serious technical complexity. From wrangling massive datasets to training cutting-edge ML models and serving results in real time, building a high-quality feed from scratch demands deep expertise and infrastructure. This post breaks down the full journey: what it takes to deliver a truly personalized feed, the common pain points at each stage, and how to think strategically about solving them—whether you're just getting started or scaling an existing system.

What is a 'For You' Feed Anyway?

You've seen them everywhere – TikTok, Instagram Reels, Netflix, news apps. The "For You" feed (or Discover, Recommended, etc.) has become the cornerstone of modern digital experiences. It's a dynamic, seemingly magical stream of content – videos, products, articles, music – curated specifically for each individual user. Done right, it's incredibly engaging, keeps users coming back, increases time spent, and drives conversions. Done poorly, it's irrelevant, repetitive, and frustrating. The magic isn't actually magic; it's a complex symphony of data engineering, machine learning, and robust infrastructure.

The Standard Approach: Building a Personalized Feed Experience

Everyone wants a feed that just knows what users want. The goal is clear: leverage AI to understand user behavior and preferences, then deliver a tailored stream of content that feels  fresh, relevant, and delightful. Building a truly effective, personalized "For You" feed from the ground up is a significant technical undertaking. It involves navigating a complex maze of data pipelines, sophisticated ML models, low-latency serving systems, and continuous optimization loops. Let's break down the demanding steps involved in this process.

Step 1: Wrangling the Data Deluge

Before any AI magic can happen, you need data – lots of it, from various sources, cleaned, processed, and readily available.

  • Identify & Integrate Sources: You need to pull data from everywhere. User profiles (databases, CRM), item/content metadata (CMS, PIM, databases), and crucially, interaction events (clicks, views, likes, shares, purchases, skips, session duration – often coming from application logs, analytics platforms like Segment/Amplitude, or message queues).
  • Build Data Pipelines: Each source requires its own pipeline. You'll need robust ETL/ELT processes to extract, transform, and load this data into a central place (likely a data lake or warehouse). This involves handling different formats (JSON, CSV, database dumps), varying schemas, and ensuring data quality.
  • Real-time vs. Batch: Some data needs to be processed in real-time (recent clicks) while other data can be batch-processed (user profiles). You need infrastructure to handle both, like Kafka/Kinesis for streams and Airflow/Spark for batches.
  • Feature Engineering: Raw data isn't enough. You need to transform it into features ML models can understand – embedding user IDs, creating interaction sequences, calculating engagement rates, processing text descriptions, etc. This requires significant data science effort.
  • Consistency & Scale: Ensuring data consistency across sources and scaling pipelines to handle potentially billions of events per day is a massive ongoing engineering challenge.

The Pain: This stage requires significant data engineering resources, complex tooling (Spark, Kafka, Flink, data warehouses, feature stores), and constant maintenance to keep pipelines running reliably and efficiently.

Shaped eliminates the complexity. Connect your existing data sources (databases like Postgres/MySQL, warehouses like Snowflake/BigQuery, event streams like Segment/Amplitude/Kinesis, object storage like S3) easily via our connectors. Shaped handles the ingestion and processing.

Step 2: The Machine Learning Maze

Once you have data (assuming Step 1 didn't halt progress), you need to build the core intelligence – the recommendation models.

  • Model Selection: Which algorithm(s) do you choose? Simple collaborative filtering? Content-based filtering? Matrix factorization? More advanced sequence-aware models (like RNNs, LSTMs)? State-of-the-art deep learning transformers? Each has trade-offs in complexity, data requirements, and performance. Often, a hybrid approach is needed.
  • Training Infrastructure: Training modern recommendation models, especially deep learning ones, requires substantial computational power (GPUs/TPUs), distributed training frameworks (TensorFlow, PyTorch), and expertise in MLOps to manage training jobs, experiments, and artifact storage.
  • Hyperparameter Tuning: Finding the optimal model configuration requires extensive experimentation and tuning, consuming significant compute resources and time.
  • Feature Integration: Effectively incorporating diverse features (user history, item metadata, context) into your chosen models is non-trivial. 
  • Offline Evaluation: You need robust methods to evaluate model performance offline before deploying, using appropriate metrics (Precision@K, Recall@K, NDCG, MAP).
  • Retraining & Model Drift: User preferences change. You need a strategy and infrastructure for regularly retraining models on fresh data to prevent performance degradation (model drift).

The Pain: This demands deep machine learning expertise, expensive cloud compute resources, complex MLOps tooling (MLflow, Kubeflow, SageMaker), and a dedicated team to constantly research, build, evaluate, and retrain models.

Shaped makes it simple. Shaped automatically trains and tunes sophisticated deep learning models (including transformers) optimized for relevance tasks. No need for deep ML expertise or managing training infrastructure.

Step 3: Serving at Scale, Instantly

A great model is useless if you can't get recommendations to users quickly and reliably.

  • Low-Latency Serving API: You need to build and deploy a highly available API that can return personalized feed recommendations for any user within milliseconds.
  • Scalability: This API must scale horizontally to handle potentially millions of requests per second during peak traffic.
  • Real-Time Inference: The system needs to incorporate the user's very latest interactions (e.g., the last item they liked) to adjust recommendations within the same session, requiring real-time feature updates and potentially online model adjustments.
  • Candidate Generation & Ranking: Typically, a feed involves multiple stages: generating a large set of candidate items (maybe using simpler models or business rules) and then using the complex ML model to rerank those candidates specifically for the user. Building and optimizing this multi-stage pipeline is complex.
  • Cold-Start Problem: How do you provide recommendations for new users with no history, or surface newly added content? This requires specific strategies (popularity, content similarity, exploration) integrated into the serving logic.

The Pain: This stage requires significant backend and infrastructure engineering effort, expertise in distributed systems, caching strategies (Redis, Memcached), container orchestration (Kubernetes), and robust API development practices. High availability and low latency are non-negotiable and hard to achieve consistently at scale.

Shaped handles real-time personalization & serving. Get personalized rankings via a scalable, low-latency API. Shaped handles candidate generation, real-time reranking, and the cold-start problem.

Step 4: Beyond Popularity - The Nuance of Discovery

A feed that only shows popular items or things exactly like what a user just saw gets boring fast.

  • Exploration vs. Exploitation: You need algorithms that balance recommending things the user is known to like (exploitation) with suggesting new, potentially interesting items they haven't seen before (exploration).
  • Diversity & Serendipity: Actively incorporating diversity into recommendations prevents filter bubbles and can lead to delightful "serendipitous" discoveries for the user. This requires specific algorithmic adjustments.
  • Business Rules & Constraints: You often need to overlay business logic – boosting certain content, filtering out items, ensuring freshness, balancing recommendations with ads, etc. Integrating these rules cleanly with the ML model output is challenging.
  • Feedback Loops: How do you incorporate negative feedback (skips, dislikes, "show less like this") effectively into the models?

The Pain: Looking beyond popular posts requires advanced ML/algorithmic thinking beyond basic accuracy, careful tuning of exploration parameters, and a flexible system architecture that allows blending ML predictions with business logic.

Effortless diversity & optimization with Shaped. Built-in controls and multi-objective learning capabilities allow you to easily balance relevance with diversity, freshness, and other business goals.

Step 5: The Never-Ending Cycle of Monitoring & Tuning

Building the feed is just the beginning. Keeping it performing well requires constant vigilance.

  • Monitoring Infrastructure: You need robust monitoring for everything: data pipeline health, model training jobs, API latency and error rates, system resource usage.
  • Key Metrics Tracking: Define and track business-relevant metrics: click-through rate (CTR), engagement rate, session duration, conversion rate (if applicable), recommendation diversity, etc.
  • A/B Testing Framework: Essential for testing new models, algorithms, or features. Building a reliable A/B testing platform specifically for ML-driven feeds is complex.
  • Debugging & Analysis: When metrics dip or users complain, debugging a complex, multi-stage ML system is incredibly difficult. You need tools and expertise to analyze model predictions and data quality.
  • Continuous Iteration: The feed is never "done." It requires a dedicated team constantly analyzing performance, experimenting with new approaches, and deploying improvements.

The Pain: Maintaining performance demands significant investment in monitoring tools (Prometheus, Grafana, Datadog), A/B testing infrastructure, data analysis skills, and a permanent, cross-functional team (Data Science, ML Eng, Backend Eng, Product).

Shaped keeps your models on track, all the time. Shaped provides performance monitoring and handles the underlying model updates and MLOps.

Added Challenges: Security, Adaptability, Feedback

In addition to all the technical and resource challenges, you need enterprise-grade security for user data, systems that can adapt quickly to new requirements, and mechanisms to actually use any explicit user feedback you might collect. Building a personalized feed from the ground up is clearly a major undertaking.

It’s Time to Move from Pain to Progress. Let’s Put Shaped to Work.

Building a world-class "For You" feed doesn't have to involve assembling massive, dedicated engineering and ML teams to wrestle with this complexity from scratch. Shaped is designed to handle the heavy lifting.

Shaped is an AI-native platform specifically built to power personalized recommendations and search. We manage the complex infrastructure, provide state-of-the-art machine learning models, and offer simple APIs, allowing your team to focus on strategy and results, not just plumbing.

Building a "For You" Feed with Shaped

Let's illustrate how much simpler it is using Shaped, adapting the concepts from a typical recommendation tutorial. (Imagine you've already connected your data sources using one of Shaped's connectors).

Goal: Create a personalized feed recommending relevant items (products, articles, videos, etc.) to users.

1. Ensure Data is Connected: Assume you have connected two primary data sources via Shaped connectors:

  • user_interactions
  • : A dataset containing events like views, clicks, likes, purchases (with user_id, item_id, timestamp, event_type).
  • content_metadata
  • (Optional but Recommended): A dataset with details about your items (e.g., item_id, title, category, description, etc.).

2. Define Your Model (YAML): Create a simple YAML file to tell Shaped how to use your data.

feed_model.yaml
 1 model:
 2   name: my_for_you_feed # Choose a name for your feed model
 3   # Optional: How far back to look at interactions
 4   # interaction_expiration_days: 180
 5 connectors:
 6   - type: Dataset
 7     id: interactions_source # Alias used in the SQL below
 8     name: user_interactions # Name of your interaction dataset in Shaped
 9   - type: Dataset
10     id: content_source # Alias used in the SQL below
11     name: content_metadata # Name of your item metadata dataset
12 fetch:
13   # Define how to select interaction events
14   events: |
15     SELECT
16       user_id,        -- User identifier
17       item_id,        -- Content/Item identifier
18       timestamp,      -- Interaction time (use the correct column name)
19       event_type      -- e.g., 'view', 'like', 'purchase'
20       -- Optional: Create a 'label' for explicit signal training
21       -- CASE
22       --   WHEN event_type = 'purchase' THEN 1.0
23       --   WHEN event_type = 'like' THEN 0.8
24       --   ELSE 0.1 -- e.g., treat views as weaker positive signal
25       -- END as label
26     FROM interactions_source
27     -- Optional: WHERE clause to filter events
28     -- WHERE event_type IN ('view', 'like', 'purchase')
29   # Define how to select item metadata (optional but improves relevance)
30   items: |
31     SELECT
32       item_id,
33       title,
34       category,
35       description
36       -- Include other relevant item attributes
37     FROM content_source
    

3. Create the Model via Shaped CLI:

create-model.sh
1 shaped create-model --file my_for_you_feed_model.yaml
    

4. Monitor Model Training: Shaped handles the complex training process automatically. You can monitor the status:

view-model.sh
1 shaped list-models
2 
3 # Or: shaped view-model --model-name my_for_you_feed
    

The status progresses: SCHEDULING -> FETCHING -> TRAINING -> TUNING -> DEPLOYING -> ACTIVE. This can take minutes to hours depending on data size.

5. Fetch Personalized Feed Rankings:

Once ACTIVE, use the Rank API to get a personalized list of item IDs for any user. This is the core of your "For You" feed.

rank_feed.py
1 from shaped import Shaped
2 
3 shaped_client = Shaped() # Assumes SHAPED_API_KEY environment variable is set
4 response = shaped_client.rank(
5    model_name='my_for_you_feed',
6    user_id='USER_123',  # Optional: for personalization
7    limit=5,
8    return_metadata=True,
9 )
10 print(f"Retrieved {{len(response.metadata)}} feed items.")
    

Response Structure:

feed_response.json
 1 {
 2   "ids": ["item_abc", "item_xyz", "item_123", ...], // Ranked item IDs
 3   "scores": [0.95, 0.92, 0.88, ...], // Relevance scores
 4   "metadata": [ // Optional: if return_metadata=true and item data connected
 5      {"title": "Article Title A", "category": "Tech", ...},
 6      {"title": "Product Name B", "category": "Apparel", ...},
 7      ...
 8   ]
 9 }
    

Your application backend takes this list of ids and fetches the full content/product details to render the feed UI

That's it! Shaped handles the underlying data pipelines, model training, scaling, real-time serving, and optimization, allowing you to deploy a sophisticated "For You" feed dramatically faster and with significantly less internal resources than the standard approach.

Conclusion: Stop Building Infrastructure, Start Building Experiences

Building a truly personalized "For You" feed is a powerful way to engage users, but the standard path is paved with immense technical challenges requiring significant investment in specialized teams, infrastructure, and ongoing maintenance.

Shaped provides the managed AI platform to bypass this complexity. By connecting your data sources and defining your goals, you can leverage state-of-the-art machine learning to power world-class personalized feeds, allowing your team to focus on creating great user experiences, not wrestling with infrastructure.

Ready to build your killer "For You" feed the smarter way?

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